Leading From The Second Chair
The process of mentoring young men stands as a fundamental component within the broader practice of evangelism. Presenting the Gospel and witnessing acceptance becomes insufficient when we neglect to provide mentorship that guides individuals in understanding how Jesus designed men to live and lead with the Gospel. John Eldredge’s book Wild at Heart functions as a dependable framework to support and guide young men from their high school years into young adulthood and beyond. This particular resource places great emphasis on the necessity for each individual to understand their identity in Christ while simultaneously embracing the adventurous spirit that God places within the heart of every man. Through the process of guiding individuals along their distinct spiritual paths we can assist them in developing a profound relationship with Jesus which empowers them to accept their leadership positions within the church, their families and communities.
Young men face numerous life challenges including relationships, career decisions, and spiritual questions which require them to seek deep-rooted biblical wisdom through wise counsel. A deliberate discipleship process enables mentors to accompany young men on their journeys by providing support and encouragement while simultaneously urging them to realize their God-given potential. The relational dynamic between these individuals serves to fortify their understanding of authentic Gospel living.
Discipling young men establishes foundational elements that support both personal development and the creation of a leadership legacy which extends across church communities and broader societal structures. The process by which these young men learn to apply their faith in everyday situations enables them to develop the skills necessary to lead their own lives while simultaneously preparing them to guide others.
The process of engaging young men through discipleship serves to promote their acceptance of both vulnerability and authenticity. The contemporary world which frequently endorses superficial values alongside self-reliance necessitates the establishment of secure environments where individuals can freely discuss their challenges and successes. Individuals who serve as mentors have the ability to demonstrate the essence of being open about their personal experience while simultaneously motivating young men to disclose their own narratives. The development of these bands of brothers serve to reinforce their personal biblical beliefs while simultaneously aligning them with a shared mission to assertively spread the Gospel message during their spiritual journey to become the men God intended them to be.
Ultimately, the journey of discipling young men is not merely about imparting knowledge or skills; it is about fostering their spiritual growth and equipping them to navigate life’s complexities with faith and integrity. As mentors invest time and energy into these young lives, they cultivate an environment where questions regarding their faith can be answered and encouragement given to embrace their unique callings. Mentors, then, play a pivotal role in shaping the next generation of men who will carry the message of the Gospel forward.
Author: Ken Hunsberger is the Director of Biblical Integration at Providence Christian Academy.